
You walk into the meeting prepared. You have the expertise. You know you have something valuable to contribute.
But when you open your mouth, what comes out is:
โ "Sorry, but can I just add something?"
โ "This might be stupid, but..."
โ "I'm not sure, but I think..."
Meanwhile, the guy across the table says "Here's what we should do" with half your qualifications and double your confidence.
Here's the truth: Every time you apologize for speaking, you're telling the room that your ideas are less valuable than everyone else's.
And it's costing you.
Costing you credibility. Costing you promotions. Costing you the respect you've already earned.
Assertive language isn't aggressive. It's professional. It's what leaders sound like.
In this free cheat sheet, you'll get:
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10 Power Phrases to replace apologetic language with confident authority
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Before & After examples so you know exactly what to say
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A 7-Day Challenge to practice these phrases and build lasting confidence
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The Authority Language Audit โ 5 bonus phrases that undermine your credibility (and what to say instead)
You'll Learn How To:
Open your mouth in meetings and command immediate respect
Share your expertise without qualifying or apologizing
Stop asking permission to contribute in spaces you've earned the right to be in
Speak with the confidence that matches your competence
Build the habit of assertive communication in just 7 days
This cheat sheet is perfect for you if:
You have the credentials but struggle to claim your authority
You catch yourself saying "just," "sorry," or "I think" constantly
You watch less-qualified colleagues speak with more confidence
You're tired of being overlooked in meetings despite your expertise
You want quick, actionable language swaps you can use immediately
"I used to start every sentence with 'I might be wrong, but...' After using Melanie's power phrases for just one week, I noticed senior leaders responding to me completely differently. I'm now leading strategy conversations I used to just observe."
โ Aimee J. Senior Director, Aeronautics Industry
Confidence is a skill, not a personality trait.
You don't need to wait until you "feel" confident to speak confidently. You build confidence by practicing assertive languageโand these 10 phrases will give you exactly what to say.
The mediocre bros aren't apologizing for their ideas. Neither should you.
โ
10 Power Phrases to replace apologetic language with confident authority
โ
Before & After examples so you know exactly what to say
โ
A 7-Day Challenge to practice these phrases and build lasting confidence
โ
The Authority Language Audit โ 5 bonus phrases that undermine your credibility (and what to say instead)
๐ Open your mouth in meetings and command immediate respect
๐ Share your expertise without qualifying or apologizing
๐ Stop asking permission to contribute in spaces you've earned the right to be in
๐ Speak with the confidence that matches your competence
๐ Build the habit of assertive communication in just 7 days
๐ You have the credentials but struggle to claim your authority
๐ You catch yourself saying "just," "sorry," or "I think" constantly
๐ You watch less-qualified colleagues speak with more confidence
๐ You're tired of being overlooked in meetings despite your expertise
๐ You want quick, actionable language swaps you can use immediately
Confidence is a skill, not a personality trait.
You don't need to wait until you "feel" confident to speak confidently. You build confidence by practicing assertive languageโand these 10 phrases will give you exactly what to say.
The mediocre bros aren't apologizing for their ideas. Neither should you.
Melanie Childers Coaching | ยฉ2025